Communication is the key to any relationship. Without it, the relationship would just die.
It's funny how easy it is to be misunderstood. The other, taking what you said in different perspectives. I think, misunderstanding is most often in couple relationships , with the woman and the man having diffrent views and take on everything.
Men are straighforward. Men, could easily have a bearable relationship with each other. They are upfront with what or how they feel and usually solves everything there and there. They usually fight with physical force but most often than not, it solves the problem. They never usually understand what women really wants.
Whereas females put deep meaning, even to the single word they say. Women will try to not be caught being shitty, therefore covering up everything into sweet elaborate words. Men are always clueless but the women always understand the hidden messages beneath everything. A simple, "Hey, I'm really good friends with your boyfriend" could have a thousand meaning and with the right chosen words could be utterly deathly. Some say it's being poised and classy, but I thinks it's just all brutally genuis.
Women could therefore be compared to ducks in ponds, all calm and pretty in the outside..but underneath the water,their little feet are stirring continuesly.
Women: "If you are tired we could just stay here. I wouldn't want you get more tired sitting out in a restaurant talking and being sweet to your girlfriend on your anniversary." (But really meaning, Damn it, Take me out, It's our anniversary for Godsake!)
Men: "Ok, let's just watch the movie I rented" and would think that that solved everything. (But I wouldn't mind a little wrestling on the bedroom. Haha)
As complicated and diffrennt both species are, it's still wonderful how compatible women and men are when they found that one person. It's like a puzzle, each piece compliments each other.
It's funny how easy it is to be misunderstood. The other, taking what you said in different perspectives. I think, misunderstanding is most often in couple relationships , with the woman and the man having diffrent views and take on everything.
Men are straighforward. Men, could easily have a bearable relationship with each other. They are upfront with what or how they feel and usually solves everything there and there. They usually fight with physical force but most often than not, it solves the problem. They never usually understand what women really wants.
Whereas females put deep meaning, even to the single word they say. Women will try to not be caught being shitty, therefore covering up everything into sweet elaborate words. Men are always clueless but the women always understand the hidden messages beneath everything. A simple, "Hey, I'm really good friends with your boyfriend" could have a thousand meaning and with the right chosen words could be utterly deathly. Some say it's being poised and classy, but I thinks it's just all brutally genuis.
Women could therefore be compared to ducks in ponds, all calm and pretty in the outside..but underneath the water,their little feet are stirring continuesly.
Women: "If you are tired we could just stay here. I wouldn't want you get more tired sitting out in a restaurant talking and being sweet to your girlfriend on your anniversary." (But really meaning, Damn it, Take me out, It's our anniversary for Godsake!)
Men: "Ok, let's just watch the movie I rented" and would think that that solved everything. (But I wouldn't mind a little wrestling on the bedroom. Haha)
As complicated and diffrennt both species are, it's still wonderful how compatible women and men are when they found that one person. It's like a puzzle, each piece compliments each other.
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